Running East
towards the west coast of England. We’re running castle to castle again come February. But still a long way to […]
Stuff I Dug Out of the Mud
Dear Richard, That you should quote Dylan Thomas! Last night I watched Set Fire to the Stars. In it, Thomas says […]
Coming to My Senses
I'm taking a break from social media, and I've removed all the news apps from my phone, save the New York Times and NRK. I get up at 5 and do yoga and meditation before I check the news. I figure, if the world is ending, I will have squeezed another peaceful half-hour of life before it does. I'm not saying ignorance is bliss, but why forfeit all that is good?
“Time, time, time is on our side”
Maybe I'm lucky, in that I wouldn't have back my experience of "youth" for the world. Even if that means I have pain in my big toe, in my knees; bifocals and a tendency to say, "Huh?".
I'm lucky that because of my youth, I know that the rain that beats on the roof will eventually stop. And that all this political turmoil will pass, one way or another. And one way or another we move on. Regroup. Grow.
Forgive. I guess.
Of Singing and Selfies
And I think there might be even more to it than that. When we glimpse ourselves in that way, we are unaware that we are seeing ourselves. We are looking objectively at the world (in the best sense), and seeing with the compassionate - or even admiring - eye that we look at others with. When we recognize ourselves, we turn on ourselves. With the conscious "posing" comes the conscious judgement. Or vice versa. We wilt under judgement.
Take Care, Take Care, Take Care
This is why I need running, too. The warrior-poet me moves (and does not think). Like you, she gets out of her head, presses against the earth - gives and takes in a space of quiet. It is time-out from self-analysis, conversation, and the mental struggling I do too often with other people. A rock is a rock, and it has no intention that I feel necessary to root out and interpret. The patch of snow, slick instead of crusty, had no intention to make me fall on my ass. I should probably learn to treat people as I do nature.
The One with the Rat Metaphor
I've seen my dog summon puppy-like energy to chase a toy rat - just until she gets her teeth on the edge of it. Then she realizes it isn't interesting at all, and she goes back, circles a little square foot of floor, and lies down again. Disappointed. I think, not as much in regards to her expectations, but in regard to suckering herself into expectations. She knows it tastes like cardboard and plastic. Not rat.
Owning Up to Beauty
There is a thickness to the dark. Sometimes the lake will freeze over and in the early morning I can hear the ice churn, as though some invisible hand has thumbed the string of a huge instrument. Cold can catch the wind itself along the shore. There's no way to take a good photo of the ice-encased shining in the dark, but it's a haunting image.
Considering a Seance
It is funny how memories are connected to places. Though sometimes inaccurately. They are free-floating, but put down roots. Like weeds, they will find a way. They will break through the concrete, they will travel over oceans. They tether themselves to whatever they can grab hold of. And will not be excised.
I’ll Miss Her and She’ll Dreadfully Miss the Cat
Apparently Saunders had described a moment on one of his journeys when he stopped fighting the wind and the cold; when he gave in to the reality of it and felt (not warm, but) a sudden rush of joy.
While I have not crossed the Antarctic - or even braved a bit of it the way you have - I have stood on the top of a mountain above 14,000 feet in biting wind, and experienced that kind of acceptance. And the joy. People say, "suck it up, and get on with it". But that's not it. "Bit i det" they say in Norwegian, but that's not it either. Both of those images involve a kind of bracing, not a relaxing.
A Physical & Metaphysical Sense of Self
When I look down at my hands now I see my grandmother's hands when I held them during church services. It's a strange kind of self-comfort, having her incorporated in my life in such an intimate and physical way.
Although a friend was visiting a few months ago; she saw a photo from the wedding and said, "Oh, your hands don't look that old in reality." To be honest, what I was uncomfortable with was how thin my hair looked in the photo - but now I have yet another thing to be self-conscious about.
On the Question of What to Say
What I truly miss is letter writing. And I miss the long email exchanges of the mid-90s, when my children were small and napping nearby - I could dig deep, take my time to think things through, but still be in conversation with a real person. Both my boys have left home. They are napping in foreign countries these days. So I'm asking myself, why is it I feel rushed now?
The Push & Pull of a Place of Safety
Being busy, being occupied with the ordering of things gives me an illusion of control. Once that flurry of activity is over, the illusion is broken. I feel vulnerable.
I think that is why, content as a I am in so many ways, I have flashes of envy when you share your experiences of arranging your new life. I want to move house again. Which is absurd. Instead: yesterday I decided on a new bookshelf for the living room. So you see, I need a healthy adventure soon.
Cats & Dogs & the Wisdom to Know the Difference
I think it takes courage to swim against the tide as we begin to do about now. When our own mortality comes slowly seeping into our consciousness as a fact of life, as our bones move with less ease and our skin relaxes, and we can admit to ourselves that we really aren't the person we tried to be.
